12 Week 04 - 就是这样

你见 或者不见我／我就在那里／不悲不喜
你念 或者不念我／情就在那里／不来不去
你爱 或者不爱我／爱就在那里／不增不减
你跟 或者不跟我／我的手就在你手里／不舍不弃
来我的怀里／或者／让我住进你的心里／默然相爱／寂静欢喜
——《班扎古鲁白玛的沉默》（扎西拉姆·多多，2007）

I do my thing and you do your thing.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world to live up to mine.
You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful.
If not, it can't be helped.
—— Gestalt Prayer (Fritz Perls, 1969)

你不觉得，这样就好了吗？